Wednesday, December 21, 2022

Love story.

 As you know, there are many kinds of love. My love for Joan, my son, her children, my brother, and his sons, and my love for a friend are just some examples.

Many years ago when we first arrived here, our friend Zbyszek suggested I could help some people here who wanted to improve their English language. I wasn't sure how I could do that but Zbysezek said that simple conversations would be a great help. He told me of his friend, Joanna, who was a doctor and would be interested in doing that, and her young son also.

My first meeting with them went very well and so we continued on a weekly basis. Her son was very shy at that time so it was a little more difficult to keep him interested.

Joanna was so pleasant to speak with that there was no problem talking with her. Her English was not too bad except studying in Germany, she often used German words mixed with her English. As the years progressed, both of them improved, and her son was losing his timidity.

My meeting with her became something I looked forward and I believe we became friends also. Whenever Joan and I had a problem, I could count on Zbyszek or her to have a solution. 

Her father had been a doctor and well known in the community in Pozna艅 so it was only natural that Joanna chose to be a doctor as well, an ophthalmologist. She was an excellent one and worked for years in Pozna艅 and only recently opened her own office while still working at a clinic.

Our meetings for the last couple of years have been on the weekend and I looked forward to them so much. We could talk about anything between the two of us. The last one was two weeks ago because she was going on an annual skiing trip to Italy. Her son who was now studying in England to be a doctor, came home to make the trip by bus with her.

So, I was devasted when he called me to tell me what had happened to her and sadness filled our hearts, Joan and I. The news from yesterday was even worse and now we are just waiting to hear more.  Last year we lost our friend Zbyszek and this year.......

Jak wiadomo, istnieje wiele rodzaj贸w mi艂o艣ci. Kilka przyk艂ad贸w to moja mi艂o艣膰 do Joan, mojego syna, jej dzieci, mojego brata i jego syn贸w oraz mi艂o艣膰 do przyjaciela.

Wiele lat temu, kiedy przyjechali艣my tu po raz pierwszy, nasz przyjaciel Zbyszek zasugerowa艂, 偶e m贸g艂bym pom贸c kilku osobom , kt贸re chcia艂yby poprawi膰 sw贸j j臋zyk angielski. Nie by艂em pewien, jak m贸g艂bym to zrobi膰, ale Zbyszek powiedzia艂, 偶e proste rozmowy b臋d膮 wielk膮 pomoc膮. Powiedzia艂 mi o swojej przyjaci贸艂ce, Joannie, kt贸ra jest lekarzem, a tak偶e o jej ma艂ym synku i 偶e by艂aby tym zainteresowana.

Moje pierwsze spotkanie z nimi posz艂o bardzo dobrze i kontynuowali艣my je co tydzie艅. Jej syn by艂 wtedy bardzo nie艣mia艂y, wi臋c troch臋 trudniej by艂o utrzyma膰 jego zainteresowanie.

Joanna by艂a tak przyjemna w rozmowie, 偶e nie by艂o problemu rozmawia膰 z ni膮. Jej angielski nie by艂 najgorszy, poza tym, 偶e studiuj膮c w Niemczech, cz臋sto u偶ywa艂a niemieckich s艂贸w mieszaj膮c je z angielskimi. Z biegiem lat oboje poprawili sw贸j anhielski, a jej syn traci艂 swoj膮 nie艣mia艂o艣膰.

Moje spotkania z ni膮 sta艂y si臋 czym艣, na co czeka艂em z niecierpliwo艣ci膮 i wierz臋, 偶e stali艣my si臋 r贸wnie偶 przyjaci贸艂mi. Kiedykolwiek mieli艣my z Joann膮 jaki艣 problem, mog艂em liczy膰 na to, 偶e Zbyszek lub ona znajd膮 rozwi膮zanie. 

Jej ojciec by艂 lekarzem i by艂 znany w 艣rodowisku pozna艅skim, wi臋c by艂o naturalne, 偶e Joanna te偶 wybra艂a zaw贸d lekarza, okulisty. By艂a znakomita i przez lata pracowa艂a w Poznaniu, a dopiero niedawno otworzy艂a w艂asny gabinet, pracuj膮c jeszcze w klinice.

Nasze spotkania przez ostatnie kilka lat odbywa艂y si臋 w weekend i tak bardzo na nie czeka艂em. We dwoje mog艂y艣my rozmawia膰 o wszystkim. Ostatnie mia艂o miejsce dwa tygodnie temu, poniewa偶 wybiera艂a si臋 na coroczny wyjazd na narty do W艂och. Jej syn, kt贸ry teraz studiuje w Anglii, aby zosta膰 lekarzem, wr贸ci艂 do domu, aby odby膰 z ni膮 t臋 podr贸偶 autobusem.

By艂em wi臋c zdruzgotany, gdy zadzwoni艂 do mnie, by powiedzie膰 mi, co si臋 z ni膮 sta艂o, a smutek wype艂ni艂 nasze serca, Joan i moje. Wczorajsze wiadomo艣ci by艂y jeszcze gorsze i czekamy na dalsze informacje.  W zesz艂ym roku stracili艣my naszego przyjaciela Zbyszka, a w tym roku.......