Sunday, October 27, 2024

Shocked.

More than 15 years ago, my friend, Zbyszek, told me that I should use my English to help improve other people's Polish. He introduced me to Sylwia, a younger lady living near him. For the next several month's, we met once a week just to practice her conversational skills. Over a longer period of time we became friends.

A few years later, she met Ryszard, a blues guitarist, and eventually got married. He had trouble finding steady employment here and so they decided to move to England, He did find a job there driving for a truck company that hauled toxic materials. For a few more years we stayed in touch and then stopped.

You can imagine how surprised I was today sitting in Sowa's with Joan and Sylwia walked up to our table. We talked for a few minutes and then I asked about Ryszard. It was another shock when she told me he had died a month ago. She was in Poland with his ashes and the funeral here was two weeks ago. I  felt somewhat bad that I didn't know.

She is going back to England to pack up the flat they have there and will return permanently to Poland. When she does, we will see each other again.

Ponad 15 lat temu m贸j przyjaciel, Zbyszek, powiedzia艂 mi, 偶e powinienem u偶y膰 mojego angielskiego, aby pom贸c innym poprawi膰 j臋zyk polski. Przedstawi艂 mnie Sylwii, m艂odszej kobiecie mieszkaj膮cej niedaleko niego. Przez kilka nast臋pnych miesi臋cy spotykali艣my si臋 raz w tygodniu, aby 膰wiczy膰 jej umiej臋tno艣ci konwersacyjne. Z czasem zaprzyja藕nili艣my si臋 na d艂u偶ej.

Kilka lat p贸藕niej pozna艂a Ryszarda, gitarzyst臋 bluesowego, z kt贸rym wzi臋艂a 艣lub. Mia艂 problemy ze znalezieniem sta艂ej pracy, wi臋c zdecydowali si臋 przenie艣膰 do Anglii, gdzie znalaz艂 prac臋 jako kierowca ci臋偶ar贸wki przewo偶膮cej toksyczne materia艂y. Jeszcze przez kilka lat utrzymywali艣my kontakt, kt贸ry potem si臋 urwa艂.

Mo偶esz sobie wyobrazi膰, jak bardzo by艂em zaskoczony, gdy siedzieli艣my dzi艣 w Sowa's z Joan i Sylwia podesz艂a do naszego stolika. Rozmawiali艣my przez kilka minut i wtedy zapyta艂em o Ryszarda. To by艂 kolejny szok, kiedy powiedzia艂a mi, 偶e zmar艂 miesi膮c temu. By艂a w Polsce z jego prochami, a pogrzeb odby艂 si臋 dwa tygodnie temu. Czu艂em si臋 troch臋 藕le, 偶e nie wiedzia艂em.

Wraca do Anglii, aby spakowa膰 mieszkanie, kt贸re tam maj膮 i wr贸ci na sta艂e do Polski. Kiedy to zrobi, zn贸w si臋 zobaczymy.